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Menopause - The Change of Your Life

 

John Roddam Spencer Stanhope. ‘Thoughts of the Past’. 1858-59.

 

Do You Remember When You Were a Little Girl?

Do you remember when you were a little girl and got breasts, or hoped you would? Remember going through that change and thinking how great it was when you finally got them? Remember how the older girls finally let you into their 'ring' after you started your period and had your first kiss?

On the downside, remember those terrible garters that held your nylons up? Or, those pointy cotton bras or Kotex Cotton Napkin Pads that came in that big blue box...or that stretchy thing with the metal bits that held those things up? All big changes, right?

Well, menopause is the biggest change yet! When I was growing up, baby boomer that I am, no one talked about 'the change' to us younger women, not even after we passed the test of puberty. Not even after we had children! Only those who shared the 'unmentionable cycle' spoke of it in whispers, in side rooms, away from us 'kids'. I had no idea what lay up and over that hill. None what-so-ever. I don't think I even knew there was such a hill! I saw life as one straight, long line that stretched further than I could ever see. Such is youth.

Oh, I knew I would stop having periods and that gravity would take over. I had heard mention of hot-flashes that women dreaded. But, no one ever told me my skin would get dry and rough, my hair would get thin (in more places than one!), that an army of wrinkles would rush in and conquer, that my throat would sag under my chin, that my stomach would bulge, my butt would dimple (and not cutely), that my breasts would sleep under my arm pits at night, that I wouldn't be able to eat certain foods anymore, sleep well, sleep at all, or that the hot-flashes I suspected I might someday have would send me running naked to my balcony in the middle of the night, in the dead of winter, in the freezing snow! And, what is worse is that no one warned me my vagina would be someday be spoken of, by doctors, mumbling from behind their clip boards, in terms of being a 'friendly' or 'unfriendly' environment, for goodness sake! It's true!

I didn't know. Now, I know. You should know too. And here are some tips for what to do when certain menopausal symptoms happen to you, sensitive woman that you are! And I know you are sensitive or you would not be reading this.

While menopause is not a stress syndrome, many women begin to develop stress syndromes during this period of their life cycle, when Estrogen, Progesterone and Testosterone levels dip, dive and then swim away!

 

What Is Menopause Anyway?

When I first started compiling the information on this page, I was mainly speaking to women who knew what menopause was, were thick in the throws of it and wanting to know what to do. I now realize that some of you highly sensitive females may not yet be anywhere near this cycle in your life's path and are wondering how this whole process begins. Basically, menopause starts with the end of your last period when the ovaries no longer respond to releasing eggs each month. This reduces the amount of estrogen and progesterone produced. It is the decreased levels of these hormones that give rise to the symptoms of menopause.

In the United States, most women begin menopause at approximately 50 years old. However, because of the stress levels of living in a modern and technological society, and the food chain being affected by chemicals and added hormones, menopause is now being seen in women as young as 30 years old.

This is the thing. You can have irregular periods for awhile, even a few years, before that ever happens and you may also have some of the symptoms of menopause during this time. This cycle of  'the change' is called perimenopause. During these irregular periods, you may bleed more heavily. Many women opt for a total hysterectomy to eliminate this messy phase, but I do not recommend this. This will only serve to imbalance your whole hormonal system very suddenly, not to mention innumerable problems left over from surgery. Just so you know, women who have only their uterus removed, with ovaries left in tact, will begin to go through menopause within 2-3 years after surgery.

Some women sail through menopause hardly noticing except to be happy they no longer have periods. They find that the personal freedom of not having to worry about periods or getting pregnant just adds to the richness of their sex life. Not to mention, by the time we are in our 50's, we have shifted our priorities from 'ego' based love to really appreciating true intimacy. But even though this applies to HSPS (Highly Sensitive Women) as well, the HSP will no doubt be bombarded with a least several of the symptoms of menopause just because she is sensitive.

And, God help the HSP who goes through menopause in the very prime of her life when she should still be putting on the glam for a mate and be fertile for child birthing. My heart goes out to all Highly Sensitive Women who endure so much more because they feel so much more deeply. Other women, the other 80% of our sisters, will beg to differ. However, if you are highly sensitive, then you know what I am saying is true. On with the details.

During menopause, your body will begin to change in different ways as you will read below.

 

Signs & Symptoms of Menopause

 

Pain

Apathy

Tinnitus

Headaches

Forgetfulness

Anxiety Attacks

Appetite Changes

Loose Teeth & Gums 

Mourning Youthfulness

Feeling Like a 'Case of Ugly'

Hair Thinning or Falling Out 

Feeling Overwhelmed/Irritated

You Now Feel Like You Have ADD

Weight-Gain Around the Mid Section & Hips

Flushing, Hot-flashes, Night-Sweats (One or a Combination)

Vaginal Dryness, Pain, Discharge & Color Change

Incontinence - Piddling on Yourself

Changed or Absent Monthly Flow

Lack of Interest in Making Love

Muscle & Joint Aches/Stiffness

Not Wanting to Leave Home

Aggressiveness/Violence

Suicidal Day Dreams

Loss of Muscle Tone

Sleep Disturbances

 Tiredness/Fatigue

Losing 'Words'

Mood-Swings

Breasts Sag

Depression

  Backache  

 Insomnia

 

Ladies, if you are having any of these symptoms, please visit

'The Importance of pH Balance!'.

Doing so may just save your life!

 

 

What is Estrogen anyway?

Did you know that hormones make up who we are on an emotional level. They lend particular expressions of persoanlity and attitude.

The woman who listens to her husband barking about the bad day he's had and lends a sympathetic and loving ear, even when she had a hard day as well, can be the same woman who lays in bed the following week and can't stomach the sound of her husband breathing in his sleep when he has done nothing wrong at all. Why? Hormonal imbalance. Take away estrogen and the woman who was once loving, calm and open becomes moddy, aggressive and uninterested in doing the things she once loved. Granted, our partners sometimes do things to drive us crazy and make us fantasize murderous thoughts, but if they haven't it just may be hormones. Before you make your significant other walk the plank, get your hormones checked. Then if you still hate him or her, go ahead, push them overboard! (Just kidding. This week anyway!)

Estrogen, the female hormone, is a steroid, which is a fat-soluble molecule related to cholesterol. Estrogen provides the appearance of being female, stimulates the uterine lining, and helps maintain bone mass by preventing calcium loss. During menopause, estrogen levels decline causing unpleasant symptoms. Progesterone and testosterone levels may also decline, or decline rather than estrogen. Unbalanced hormonal levels cause the symptoms of menopause, such as hot flashes, night sweats, mood-swings, sleep and vaginal disturbances. Our endocrine system lords over our hormones, which are regulated by the adrenal glands. 

And by the way. Our bodies have not adjusted to modern age. We still operate the way we did some 50,000 years ago. Today's stresses, chemicals, preservatives and fast foods all affect our hormone levels. Processed and packaged foods confuse the natural function of hormones. There are some of us who have never, ever been hormonally balanced because of it!

 

What's the Talk About Progesterone Instead?

A sure sign of progesterone deficiency (and estrogen dominance) is weight-gain. Ask any woman who is on ERT (Estrogen Replacement Therapy) and she will tell you she has gained weight since beginning treatment from using Estrogen alone. 

Many women do not realize that they may need progesterone replacement as well as estrogen. Some may even need additional testosterone. These three hormones perform numerous functions in the body, in each and every cell. It is thought that while estrogen can help with hot-flashes and vaginal dryness, Progesterone is the precursor to estrogen and by taking it alone estrogen levels often return to satisfactory levels. This is not completely agreed upon. It is agreed that Estrogen and Progesterone used together in a cyclic manner have the best results in alieving menopausal symptoms. If they are natural and not synthetic, so much the better. Synthetic hormones treat only the symptoms of menopause and not the cause. I will say it again.

"Synthetic hormones treat only the symptoms of menopause and not the cause."

Natural, or bio-identical hormones, replace the hormones you have lost. Your doctor should know the difference and if she does not, either share the findings below with her or find someone who does.

 

See Your Doctor For Blood Tests!

Progesterone, Estrogen and Testosterone hormone levels can be checked by your doctor. This can be done with a simple blood test. Hormone levels may be more accurately revealed through saliva testing.  Hormone levels should probably be tested every 3-6 months and your doses changed accordingly.

While you are at it, ask your doctor to check for Adrenal Burnout, which can mimic menpause and even cause hormone imbalance. Have your cortisol levels checked. For more information on Adrenal Burnout, visit my 'Stress Syndrome Management' page. I also provide a link at the bottom of this page for even further information concerning Adrenal Burnout.

As already stated, it is important that your doctor prescribe bio-identical hormones rather than synthetic hormones, produced by drug companies, which only treat symptoms of menopause rather than replace the hormones you have lost. 

It is important to have your hormones prescribed according to your blood test findings, or at least approved of by your doctor, rather than experimenting with over-the-counter hormones. Even natural hormones can be powerful and have their side effects.

 

Synthetic vs. Bio-identical Hormones

Synthetic Estrogen: Premarin and other conjugated estrogens.

Synthetic Progesterone: Provera, Amen, Prempro (a combination of Premarin and Provera), Norethindrone, Norgestimate and Nordestrel.

Synthetic Testosterone: Methyltestosterone. Estratest (estradiol and synthetic testosterone), and Premarin plus synthetic testosterone.

Bio-identical Estrogen: Estradiol, Estrone, Estriol. Synthesized in a lab from plant extracts (soybeans and yams) and are designed to be molecularly the same as the hormones in our bodies.

Bio-identical Progesterone: USP progesterone (Pro-Gest, Prometrium, Crinone) made from Wild Yam designed to be molecularly the same as the hormones in our bodies.

Bio-identical Testosterone: Dehydroepiandrosterone, or DHEA, an adrenal precursor to testosterone.

 

Progesterone Cream

If you insist on going your own way, Progesterone cream is available over-the-counter and is available for purchase online. It is derived from Wild Yam or Soy, or both. Not all brands offer you the dose of at least 400 mg per 1-ounce (and most creams come in 2 oz jars) that is necessary for any benefit, so read your labels. You will also want to make it states 'USP Progesterone' on the label. USP means that it has been made in a lab with the guarantee of the correct dosage per ounce. 

It would be better for you to determine through blood testing whether you need Progesterone (and how much depending on your levels) before just purchasing a jar and using it. A prescription would be even better. Progesterone may not be what you need most, or at all. Everyone is different.

Do not use a cream that contains Mineral Oil. It blocks progesterone absorption and is a sure clue of an unworthy product.

 

How To Use Progesterone Cream

Instructions always come with your product, but here is a bit more advice. If you are peri-menopausal (in the beginning stages of) or menopausal, and most women are, well before they seek help, you will want to use the full monthly dose for three months or so to overcome deficiencies. Most 2 oz jars of cream contain 800-1200 mg of progesterone. Of this, you will use 1/8-1/2 teaspoon per day (approximately 14-20 mg). 

 

The Method

Menstruating (Ovulating) Women:
Apply once or twice a day as needed (you can divide doses), starting on the 12th day after the first day of menstrual flow thru the 27th day.

Peri-menopausal Women:
Apply once or twice a day as needed (you can divide doses), starting on the 7th day after the first day of menstrual flow thru the 27th day.

Menopausal or Non-menstruating Women:
Apply once or twice a day (you can divide doses) for 21 - 25 (maximum) consecutive days. Resume after a five – seven day break.

The Method can, and should,  to be used in conjunction with daily Estrogen replacement.

 

How To Apply Your Cream

You will want to rotate applications of the cream between your face, neck, chest, inner thighs, backs of knees, palms, bottoms of your feet or the underside of your upper arms. You are looking for the softest and thinnest areas of skin for best absorption. Do not use it where you use other creams. They may block absorption.

How Long Do I Continue To Use it?

This is where a doctor would be beneficial. She could have your blood tested for deficiencies. However, when you begin to feel balanced (after the 3 months or so), you may reduce the dosage and continue the same schedule, at the reduced dose, for as long as you feel you need it. For more information on the method of using Progesterone Cream and for purchasing Progesterone Cream, please use the references at the bottom of this page.

Tip! Bio-identical hormones are not to be used indefinitely, but only for as long as you are going through menopause, or your blood tests reveal the need for them. At some point, your body should stabilize although in today's world, with today's ever increasing stresses, it can be hard to say when that might be.

Tip! If you wake up feeling 'blah', unmotivated and generally like you could say 'whatever' to the world, you might need to increase your estrogen a bit. If, on the other hand, you wake up feeling anxious, uptight and have tender breasts, you might need a little less estrogen. 

Side Effects

There are no known negative effects of using progesterone creams. However, I get a little wary when someone tells me there are no side effects. There can be side effects to anything and everything. For example, there are precautions on some brand labels concerning manufacturers ingredients. And, many labels will tell you to stop taking it if you develop a skin rash, acne or begin to vaginally spot or bleed.

One thing to be aware of is that HRTs (Hormone Replacements Therapies) cause deficiencies in Folic Acid and B Vitamins, especially B6.

For information regarding stress syndromes related to menopause, please visit 'Stress Syndrome Management'.

 

 Where To Get Gels and Extracts, Instead of Creams

'Fair Lady' by Village Market, is a progesterone gel. They also offer an all natural estrogen made from yam and soy (free of hormones from pregnant mares).

'Phytogest' by Karuna Corp is an extract. It is all herb and progesterone. Herbs are in 4:1 extracts in a 50% grain alcohol base. 

You might also want to take a peek at Angel Care (progesterone cream) by Angel Care USA at www.pesdirect.com/wmnhlth.html. Their phone number is 1-800-854-3895.

A couple of places Progesterone creams can be found, in the Northwest, are Super Supplements, Marlene's and GNC. GNC carries 2-3 different brands. My recommendations are GNC's 'Natural Woman' by Products of Nature (made from yam) and progesterone cream products by Jason's Cosmetics.

Note: From what I understand, creams bypass the liver and carry hormones to where they are needed in the body.

 

The Two Rules of Hormone Replacement Therapy

I am not a doctor, by any means, but from everything I have read and studied regarding menopause, there are two major rules concerning the usage of HRTs. The first is that if you have a higher risk of cancer you will probably suffer negative consequences to taking HRTs. The second is that HRTs will only benefit those with a risk of heart disease (that have no risk of cancer).

 

Foods That Effect Hormones 

If you have a concern with cancer, there are certain foods that contain phyto-estrogens that you would be wise to refrain from. There are also foods that inhibit estrogen. Vist 'Eating, Naturally!' for more information on phyto-estrogens.

 

Now, The Big Wow!

You can design your own program!

Studies show that ERT (Estrogen Replacement Therapy) and HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy using Estrogen and Progesterone combined), with all of the good and the bad that go along with them (with synthetic hormones and sometimes the misuse of bio-identical hormones, the threat of cancer, stroke, heart attack, blood clots, fluid retention, weight gain, etc.), even though they may mask or actually help with menopausal symptoms, work no better for you than stress management, alternative therapies, lifestyle modification, a healthy diet and exercise! So what does this mean?

It means that if you are terrified of HRTs, and you are freaking out from your symptoms, there is still a way to be in control of your hormones and your body!

 

First Things First. Your Diet!

Even if you are not menopausal (women) or andropausal (men), it is important to follow some healthy guidelines. Sooner or later you will come to this phase in life and it helps to have a healthy head start!

Gained a Little Weight Lately...In Your Middle?

Have you ever wondered why you have gained weight now that you are menopausal? It is because hormonal imbalance causes weight gain through insulin resistance and high levels of cortisol. Cortisol alone causes bone loss, muscle loss and weight gain. Three major hormones are adrenal, cortisol and insulin, with three minor ones being estrogen, progesterone and testosterone. Insulin is a major hormone affected by the balance or imbalance of your other hormones, especially large amounts of cortisol, which is increased with stress. It's major function is to counter balance your body's sugar intake. In simple terms, insulin resistance is when your cells are loaded with the sugars from the carbohydrates and other foods, like alcohol, that the body accepts as sugar and any more than that is turned to fat, which sticks to a woman's stomach, upper arms, rear and hips. It's like your storage house for sugars is full. You can't get anymore in so it is turned into fat to be stored there instead! And of course there is always more room for fat! For more information on hormones in general, please visit 'Adrenal Burnout'

 

Watch your PH balance, Ladies!

If your body is more acidic than alkaline, you will experience a host of negative symptoms, syndromes and eventually disease! As we age, we naturally become more acidic anyway. If our bodies are too acidic, we develop dis-eases such as Fibromyalgia, Chronic Fatigue and Irritable Bowel. It can cause Obesity, Anxiety, Depression and Panic Attack. For more information visit 'The Importance of pH Balance!', where you will find a list of 'Acidic vs. Alkaline Foods' to aid you in knowing what to avoid and how to make healthier food choices. Negative emotions can affect

 

"So what can you do?"

As far as your diet:

As stated above, limit, and plan to eliminate, caffeine and refined sugar. Add sodas, cigarettes and alcohol (or limit to 2 drinks per day, preferably wine) to that list of things to avoid. 

There is a good side to coffee! It helps to reduce the risk of Parkinson's and Alzheimers, but please stick with skim milk, no sugar and take a little extra calcium and B vits. You will also need to drink more water. Caffeine is a diuretic and causes loss of calcium. It seriously upsets hormone balance, especially insulin levels! Moderation is key. Try to stay under two cups per day.

If you like to have an occasional drink, stick with red wine, particularly Pinot Noir. It contains the highest amount of resveratrol, an antioxidant, which protects the heart and is also found in the skin of all grapes.

Stay away from trans fats. Don't eat any oils other than butter, virgin olive oil and some canola oil (cold pressed). Eat whole unprocessed foods. Don't overdo on fruit (full of sugar). NO milk or only nonfat. Limit yogurt, but use only plain yogurt. Eat fish (for Omega-3s). For more fiber, as Psyllium. The ingredient in Metamucil, but without the additives! 

Add cranberries to your diet more than just once a year. Cranberries contain ellagic acid, an antioxidant that prevents cancer cells from growing once damage has already occurred. Cranberry supplements do not work this way, as far as I know. Eat the real deal! Spread some cranberries on toast instead of jam. Use it in meat dishes.

When you go shopping, make a list of foods that you know will keep you healthy. If it is not going to keep you young, don't buy it.

As far as your sleep schedule:

Make sure you are on a regular sleeping schedule. Avoid being to bed on time one night and then a night owl the next. This wreaks havoc on your hormonal system and makes it hard for your body to repair. Read more about Sleep Disorders here.

As far as the stress in your life:

Make a committment to be as good to yourself as you possibly can. Make a list of all the things you have to do, prioritize it day by day, hour by hour, if need be. Learn to say no. Do one relaxing thing every day, just one. Do those things that build your self-esteem. Find out how by clicking here.

 

Add Phyto-Estrogens To Your Diet 

& Watch Your Eating Habits!

For more information on foods containing phyto-estrogens, refer to 'Eating, Naturally!' 

Phyto-estrogens may also be taken in supplemental form. Check your local health food store. Most combinations include varying amounts of Soy, Black Cohosh, Dong Quai and, perhaps, Wild Yam. If you have cancer, or a risk for cancer, please speak to your care provider before consuming foods rich in physto-estrogens.

Eat Calcium rich foods. See below under 'Arthritis & Chronic Pain'.

And there are other certain diet and supplement recommendations. See below!

 

Necessary Supplements for Everyone!

Take a Multi-Vitamins and Mineral supplements. Purchase extra supplements in individual forms to increase dosages as follows or purchase all your vitamins separately. Always follow doctor recommendations first.

It is absolutely necessary that you have enough of...

Vitamin A, no less than 2500 IU, no more than 5000 IU per day. (No more than 8,000 IU per day. Vitamin A can build up and become toxic in the body.)

Vitamin C, at least 500-1000 mg per day, in a buffered form. Divide this into 3 doses of 400 mg per day. If you suffer from stress syndromes, you can take more. Cut back as you feel better. Indicators of deficiency are bleeding gums, bruising and slow wound healing, diabetes and reoccuring infections. 

Take Vitamin E (d-alpha tocopherol), at least 400 IU per day, no more than 800 IU per day. Once you feel balanced, stick with only 400 units. Indicators for deficiency are muscle weakness, diabetes, acne, angina (heart pain), hot flashes, heart disease, tender breasts and arthritis. Vitamin E aids in cancer prevention.

Take B-Vitamins, particularly B6(pyridoxine) 25-100 mg per day and B12. You might take a high potency B complex (50-100 mg complex) until you feel balanced. Reduce to no less than 4 mg of B6 per day and no less than 400-800 mcg of B12 per day.

Other Bs (least amounts per day): B1 (thiamine) 10-100 mg, B2 (riboflavin) 10-50 mg, B3 (niacin) 10-100 mg, B5 (pantothenic acid) 25-100 mg  Indicators of B Vitamin dificiency are fatigue, water retention, mood swings, canker and/or cold sores, elevated cholesterol and cardiovascular markers.

Calcium, 1000-1200 mg per day in 600 mg doses. Works synergistically with Magnesium, Zinc and Vitamin D. For every caffeinated coffee, tea or cola you drink, add an extra 20 mg. of Calcium. Indications of deficiency are muscle cramps and aches, joint pain, osteoporosis, diabetes, migraines, high blood pressure and insomnia. More on Calcium here.

Take Magnesium Citrate or Gluconate, no less than 400 mg. However much Calcium you are taking, you should take a third as much Magnesium. Do not take more than 1000 mg of Magnesium per day. Once hormones are balanced, you can stop taking the extra amount. Magnesium at higher levels can cause loose stool. Indications of deficiency are muscle weakness, spasms and soreness, insomnia and tiredness, irritability, heart palpitations and anxiety, irregular heart beat, high blood pressure, Fibromyalgia, a sweet tooth, kidney stones, fatigue and osteoporosis.

Vitamin D, 200-400 IU per day. (If you are over 60 years old, use 600 IU) Vitamin D turns estriadol back into estrone, the weak estrogen, which has the ability to help your body regulate estrogen output according to it's need. You can get your Vitamin D from being in the sun for 20 minutes 3 x per week, but only April 15th - October 1st. The rest of the year, the sun is too far away.

Folate, no less than 400 mcg per day and up to 800 mcg. It decreases cancer risk by 60%! We have four kinds of cells in our body. We have A, C. G and T cells. T cells prevent misduplication (wrong making) of cells. We need Folate for T cells.

Selenium, 200 mcg per day. Selenium gaurds against breast, prostate and colon cancer.

Zinc, 15-30 mg.

In your Multi-Vitamin, these amounts are appropriate:

Copper: 1-2 mg, Manganese: 5-15 mg, Molybdenum 10-25 mg, Boron 1-3 mg, Silica 1-20 mg, Vanadium 50-100 mcg, Inositol 10-100 mg,Choline 10-100 mg.

Worthwhile supplements to consider, but not completely necessary:

Quercitin, found in onions, reduces the risk of some cancers (especially stomach) and helps with asthsma. Green Tea extract, a wonderful antioxidant, would be beneficial or take

CoQ10 30-50 mg per day. Take 100-300 mg per day if you already have heart disease.

L-Carnitine helps the heart use up fat for fuel. It is beneficial for those with high triglycerides (fat in blood cells) and angina (heart pain). Take 250-500 mg daily. For those with heart problems already, take 1500-3000 mg per day.

Omega 3 Fish Oil (good fats) are important unless you already eat fish 2-3 times per week, which should contain sufficient amounts. Walnuts are high in Omega 3s! You may use Flaxseed Oil instead if the 'fishiness' bothers you. Essential Fatty Acids are important for bone health. They improve Calcium absorption and reduce Calcium excretion from your bones and increase Calcium deposits to the bones. They also decrease pain!

Iron. Do not take a supplement that contains more than 10 mg of Iron, unless directed by your physician. Iron can build up in the body and become toxic. In fact, post menopausal women, no longer having periods are at the greatest risk for this. If you no longer have periods, do not take Iron unless advised by your physician. Have your blood tested if you feel you are anemic or have other reasons for needing Iron supplementation.

Unnecessary supplements, unless otherwise directed by your physician:

Chromium and Potassium. Both are found in sufficient quantities in a healthy diet and do not need to be supplemented unless you are athletic and run the risk of losing large amounts of water through perspiration. Chromium is touted to help relieve blood sugar imbalances by helping with proper transport and metabolism of glucose within cells. However, dosages should be monitored by your physician. Chromium is often one of the key ingredients in energy drinks. It can be a problem for diabetics and hypoglycemic individuals, dangerously lowering blood sugar levels.

Visit 'Eating, Naturally!' for more information on nutrition and stress syndromes.

 

Remedies for Menopausal Symptoms!

Hot flashes at night are called night sweats, which can cause one to wake in terror and can produce anxiety attacks. If this has ever happened to you, then you know what it is like to be suddenly yanked awake by 'who knows what' and left hot, sweaty, trembling and fearful. Some women describe a feeling of being 'unable to move'. Thinking perhaps it was a low blood sugar attack (and indeed that may have been a part of it), you may have wobbly made your way to the kitchen, wolfed down something you felt you could go back to sleep with only to lay there in your bed wondering what just happened to you and if you are going to die from it. Then come the chills.

So often, I've come across statements to the effect that there is no real understanding of what causes hot flashes. I had to go to a rather 'scientific' resource to find an explanation. this is what I found:

"Hot flashes are due to the hypothalamic response to declining ovarian estrogen production. The declining estrogen state induces hypophysiotropic neurons in the arcuate nucleas of the hypothalumus to release gonadotropin-releasing hormone (GnRH) in a pulsatile fashion, which in turn stimulates release of luteinizing hormone (LH). Extremely high pulses of LH occur during the period of declining estrogen production. The LH has vasodilatory effects, which leads to flushing."

There are things you can do to put the 'cool' on eliminating those 'hot' attacks. First, caffeine and refined sugars need to be greatly reduced. Adding Vitamin E, Black Cohosh and Soy also help, but there are rules!

Vitamin E

Try adding Vitamin E, no more than 400 IU per day. Take it in the afternoon. That will help you through the night and the next morning, when night sweats can disturb sleep. Vitamin E may conflict with certain medications, especially for the heart.

Black Cohosh

For menopausal symptoms, try the herb 'Black Cohosh' (not Blue Cohosh), for only six months, at 40 mg per day or as directed on the bottle, or by your doctor.  Do not take Black Cohosh if you have High Blood Pressure or are taking High Blood Pressure Medication! The side effect is an extremely, unsafe drop in blood pressure! For most individuals, Black Cohosh has no side effects beyond occasional mild stomach discomfort. Still, it seems rather 'iffy' to me. Recent Group Health studies have revealed that Black Cohosh works no better than a placebo. Most women I talk to agree with this. However, there are some who swear by it, which means it must work for some. Black Cohosh is also believed to have fairly good results in reducing the symptoms of vaginitis and related imbalances.

Sage Tea

As a tea, use 1/2 teaspoon of dried leaf in 1 cup of boiling water, up to 3 times per day. It works right away, so you can use it when you need to. Add a touch of Honey or Stevia. Sage helps with both hot-flashes and night-sweats.

Motherwort

Leave Motherwort and a glass of water on your nightstand. If you are awakened with nightsweats, place 10-15 drops on your tongue and swallow with water. Take as directed on the label.

Basil or Thyme Essential Oils

Place a few drops on a hankerchief (remember those?) or a cotton ball. Place in a ziplock sandwich bag. Open and inhale when a hotflash strikes.

What about Chasteberry?

Chasteberry findings are mixed. It is usually called 'Vitex', and used for PMS and tender breasts, but it can either raise or lower your libido (sex drive) depending on your personal chemistry. 

You cannot use it with dopamine antagonists or antagonists because it raises the level of dopamine in the brain.  It affects pitutitary function and is supposed to be good at regulating hot flashes and dizziness, but it lacks phytosterols, which makes it a slow acting tonic and, for this reason, it requires at least a year's commitment even though some positive results may be felt within 3 months time.

As far as menopause is concerned, unless you have painful periods or strong PMS symptoms, including a tendency for heavy or prolonged bleeding, there is no good reason to rush and add it to your list of things to take. I would imagine all mothers would think this is a magic potion for teenage daughters, unless of course it raises her libido! Still, it may be helpful if you have the conditions mentioned.

Soy Supplements

Soy has 'estrogen' like properties (isoflavones). It is reportedly safer than Black Cohosh, as long as you are not allergic to it. Soy may cause 'fuzzy thinking' in some who have food sensitivities to it. Limit your combined sources to no less than 10-15 mg and no more than 40 mg divided throughout the day if you choose to use it. You may also get soy from adding plain, firm tofu to shakes and salads. I do not advise taking isoflavones in supplement form. Studies show that Soy does not have much affect, if any, on flushing and sweats, but it does help with balancing hormones in general.

Do not use Soy or Black Cohosh if you have a risk for cancer.

Also, there are studies out there that show Soy is not good for the human body at all! In fact, it is said it is quite harmful. Do some research on your own before indulging too much.

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Exercise to Relax!

I mention exercise below, under Arthritis, but it is worth mentioning here as well. Exercise decreases hotflashes by decreasing the amount of circulating LH and FSH hormones. It raises your level of endorphins (feel good chemicals in the brain), which drop signifcantly when hot flashing. Work up to walking 3 x per week for 20 minutes. Start with five minutes if you have to. Studies show this can reduce hotflashes. The important thing to remember here is to exercise to relax, not to build muscle or lose weight. These things will be added benefits, but focus on exercise as a relaxation tool rather than something you have to work at. For  more information, visit 'Exercise for HSPs'.

 

Some women are trying DHEA...

...which is a steroid hormone that is produced by the adrenal glands and is derived from pregnenolone. DHEA levels decrease in menopause. If your adrenals are not working properly (functioning at too low a level) you will also loose DHEA. Supplementing with DHEA can cause measurable increases in estrogen (estrone and estradiol) and testosterone. However, effects of supplementing with DHEA (usually 25 mg) have not been thoroughly studied, so it may be risky. 

 

Vaginal Infection, Dryness, Discharge or Pain?

Even before menopause actually takes place, a vaginal difference can be noticed, but afterwards it can be a nightmare for some. Up to 40% of all post-menopausal women have problems with vaginal infections (yeast, Gardnerella, etc.) during pre-menopause only to have it worsen during menopause when hormone levels dip and dive.

During the middle years of a woman's life, she often goes through hysterectomy, either full or partial. Post operative infections, such as Gardnerella (a bacterial infection) often follow hysterectomy, with or without symptoms. Gardnerella is often the cause of infection even without hysterectomy. Basically this means that there is an absence of normal lactobacilli that has 'caused problems'.

After surgeries and/or during menopause, these 'problems' can cause 'Atrophic Vaginitis' and under medical examination, 'Atrophic Vaginitis' often goes hand in hand with an overgrowth of the bacteria called 'Garnerella', which can mimic 'Atrophic Vaginitis (more common with low estrogen levels). Gardnerella is usually not a serious health threat, but tough cases should be supervised by your doctor. 

Both, however, are still symptoms and not causes. I often think of these two, Gardnerella and Atrophic Vaginitis as being 'married'. I figure if you can divorce one, you can divorce the other, as Garnerella irritates already thin and sensitive vaginal tissues!

Did you know that sleep disturbances can be related to bacterial infections? It might interest you to know that some people say that they begin to lose weight and to sleep better once they heal their problem with Gardnerella, although it is not completely understood as to why.

Signs and Symptoms of Atrophic Vaginitis and/or Gardnerella

Vaginal dryness, pain or slight bleeding during intercourse.

Irritation (can be what looks like raw or red areas inside the vaginal entrance).

Discharge (can be thin, mucus colored, sticks and dries in the pubic hair, with fishy odor or no odor).

A feeling of 'fullness' or 'sensitivity' when washing or sitting.  

Having to urinate more often, especially at night, due to the wall between the vagina and the bladder thinning.

Lumps or bumps under the skin of the labia (vaginal lips) that itch, stick around for a bit and then disappear.

* These may be signs of other conditions as well. Please see your doctor for a diagnosis.

 

Why Is This Happening?

As hormones fluctuate, normal bacteria in the vagina can overgrow causing infection and irritation leading to discharge, redness and pain.

Also, ladies, check your pH balance! You can do this yourself by going to your neighborhood pharmacy and purchasing over-the-counter pH test strips (about S8.95). for more information, visit 'The Importance of pH Balance!'. If your urine is too acidic, it can burn you!

Please see your care provider for a diagnosis. Then proceed from there. Medical doctors treat Gardnerella (and other forms of bacterial vaginosis), with antibiotics such as Clindamycin and Metronidazole pills or gel. However, 12-30% of all women end up with a yeast infection (candidiasis) as a result and have recurring problems with the vaginitis. This is why it is so important to rebalance the hormones in the body.

Atrophic Vaginitis, Gardnerella (and other bacterial overgrowths) and yeast infections are all a result of physical imbalances caused by high stress, especially unresolved relationship problems, allergies and hormonal changes. Therefore, you must do some soul searching and then turn to your diet, use alternative products and possible hormone replacement for healing and check your pH balance, as mentioned above. 

 

Gardnerella F.Y.I.

Garnerella does not cross barriers in the body like yeast and some other other bacteria. It will not infiltrate the rest of your system (like yeast can). This is good news, right? It is contained in the vagina and is more of a nuisance than anything else, unless it creates an infection. Having an overgrowth of Gardnerella does not necessarily mean you have an infection, or that you will get one.

 

What Can Be Done?

Typically, as far as natural approaches go, the following conditions might be treated the following ways.

Vaginal Candidiasis (yeast infection) - Acidophilus supplements, vaginal suppositiories, eating plain yogurt or applying it vaginally, Boric acid (vaginal suppository), Echinacea and/or Goldenseal (oral tinctures), Tea Tree oil (vaginal suppositories or douche). For more on candia (yeast infection) and how to treat it, click here.

Bacterial Vaginosis - Vaginal suppositories and douche.

Trichomoniasis - Echinacea and/or Goldenseal (oral tinctures) and Tea Tree oil vaginal suppositories or douche.

 

How To Use Home Treatments

Vitamin E - To ease some of your dryness and discomfort, you can prick the end of a Vitamin E capsule (200 IU - 400 IU maximum) and insert it into the vagina every night for up to two weeks, then only 2-3 times per week thereafter, for maintaining suppleness and reducing vaginal pain due to dryness and reduced flexibility of vaginal tissues. You may also apply it to irritated areas around the vaginal opening.

Oils - You may also soak a cotton makeup pad or a square of sterile gauze with olive oil, wheat germ oil or sesame oil, squeeze out excess and insert overnight once per week for vaginal dryness.

Garlic -You may do the same with a garlic clove (one clove, peeled but not cut), by wrapping it in gauze and changing it out for a new one every 12 hours. This helps to fight infection. I have only read this and not personally tried it. I would be interested in hearing how it works from any of you trying this method.

KY Lubricant - Use products such as KY-Jelly, a vaginal lubricant) during intercourse. The oils mentioned above can dry out to fast during intercourse causing friction to irritate the vaginal lining, which will cause more bacterial overgrowth.

Go easy on antihistamines. They dry out all mucous membranes, including those of the vagina. Cardiovascular, antidepressant, atropine prescriptions and diuretics can also have a drying effect on the vagina. To help restore mucous membranes, including vaginal, supplement with Vitamin E (200 - 400 mg. twice per day) and Vitamin A - 25,000 mg. per day (only if you are not pregnant).

 

Tea Tree Oil  - 'Old World' Captain Cook's Discovery! Captain Cook could not have known that when he discovered the aborigines using tea tree oil in the 1700's that the oil could be used for routine vaginal problems such as Candida albicans (yeast infection), trichomonas or Gardnerella. How to make it? First, buy a tea tree oil that has 20% concentration of the oil, such as Dessert Essence brand. Dilute the oil even further by adding 1 teaspoon of tea tree oil to 1 pint of warm water. Wash the outer vagina with the same solution and use for a douche. Do not use beyond two months and ask your doctor first.

Echinacea - Echinacea is an herb the Native Americans used to treat colds and flus, skin wounds, snake bites, toothaches and to help heal inflammations of the type that now end with the suffix "itis', such as bronchitis, sinusitis and vaginitis. It stimulates the immune system against bacteria and viral invasions. It is one of the best blood purifiers there is, removing free radicals and dead particles from the body. Echinacea is usually used for two weeks at a time, with at least two weeks off non-use in between. Take daily as directed on the label.

Fem-dophilus! A Modern Approach On An Old Therapy!

It is a vaginal probiotic formula that has been clinically documented to promote vaginal and urinary tract health. It is for sale at most major health food stores, or you can visit www.jarrow.com.

 

Invest in Echinacea

Echinacea is an herb the Native Americans used to treat colds and flus, skin wounds, snake bites, toothaches and to help heal inflammations of the type that now end with the suffix "itis', such as bronchitis, sinusitis and vaginitis. It stimulates the immune system against bacteria and viral invasions. It is one of the best blood purifiers there is, removing free radicals and dead particles from the body. Echinacea is usually used for two weeks at a time, with at least two weeks off non-use in between. Take daily as directed on the label.

For other tips on what to do for vaginal 'issues', please visit 'Energy Wellness Tips!' and 'Stress Syndrome Management' pages.

Three herbs that may help with rebuilding vaginal mucosa and moisture are Cimicifuga race mosa, Chinese Rehmannia and Dong quai.

 

Thinking of Trying an HRT Cream?

Bio-identical Vaginal Hormone Cream - If you have tried all else, and nothing has worked for your 'atrophic vagina', you might talk to your doctor about a hormonal vaginal cream. The danger to this is that it may add to the level of estrogen in your body if you are already taking an ERT or HRTs (and I am talking bio-identical HRTs here). Make sure you are prescribed a natural form of cream and that your hormone levels have been checked.

The cream may, at first, depending on how thin the vaginal walls have become, do some seeping through the vaginal barrier into the blood stream, causing a rise in overall Estrogen levels, but once the vaginal wall begins to heal and thicken, this should decrease tremendously, or even stop all together. This process usually takes two to three weeks.

I have to tell you that hormone replacement has not always been proven to help with vaginal atrophy. In fact, some women are sensitive to vaginal hormone creams.

There are a couple of prescription products that do not add to the level of estrogen in your system (a vaginal ring and a small tablet to insert into the vagina made by Pharmacia). However, the side effects are not worth it.

Tip! Do not have intercourse or use anything in the vagina for at least 3 days before a vaginal exam, so that treatments, or sexual intercourse, don't mask any problems you might be having.

One more tip, ladies! If you do use a vaginal cream, make sure not to share it with your partner. He can absorb it!

 

(A Little Sex Talk) ...Pssst...Did you know?

According to Masters and Johnson, having intercourse at least once or twice per week will help the vagina to maintain natural lubrication. Even if you have been celibate for awhile, the vagina will regain its production of mucus secretion and maintain muscle tone. No amount of 'having intercourse' is going to correct this imbalance, nor should you try having intercourse until you are healed. Satisfying yourself helps in the same way. You and your partner may want to do each other 'favors' while you are healing instead.

FYI: You can get pregnant for up to one year after periods cease!

 

Are You Piddling On Yourself?

During menopause, changes occur in the bladder as well. The lining between the vagina and the bladder grows thinner due to hormones declining. The urethra is looser than it used to be and urine can pool inside of it. This is can be the cause of urine trickling down your leg after you stand up from the toilet. It is also the reason why you can't hold it like you used to.

Also, the bladder is not as cushioned as it once was. Sexual activities can be aggravate the bladder and leave you feeling the urge to pee when you don't have to. This is a sign of IBS (Irritable Bladder Syndrome). Before sexual activities, make sure you empty your bladder and be sure to use a lubricant if you have problems with vaginal dryness. Go to the bathroom again as soon as you can after sex.

Hormonal changes can lead to a more frequent 'pee' schedule, especially at night. Try not drinking as much fluid in the evening. I have found that this sometimes helps and at other times it makes no difference. I am still up at least once a night, usually two and half to three hours after I fall asleep. This is common. To strengthen the vagina and the bladder, perform Kegel exercise throughout the day. For instructions, visit 'Stress Syndrome Management' and scroll down to 'Irritable Bladder Syndrome'.

 

Are You Feeling Dizzy or Off Balance?

Dizziness is something I never associated with Menopause. I just figured being off balance was related to my Fibromyalgia or Tinnitus, but guess what? My dizziness started about the same as my hormone levels begin to decline. Then I developed Tinnitus (ringing in my ears).

Tinnitus is a concern and a complaint of menopausal women and has been proven to be, in some cases, one of the causes of Tinnitus. Women going through menopause frequently feel dizzy and off balance due to fluctuating hormones, so much so that they can have panic attacks because of it and often develop phobias about being out in public for fear of becoming 'dizzy' and being embarrassed. This can lead to Agoraphobia, which is an affliction of many Highly Sensitive People.

Why don't doctors tell you this? I think it is due to having to do so much cross referencing. So many symptoms and syndromes over lap that there can really be no way of ever being told all of the reasons for a specific symptom, or even a set of symptoms, by one care provider. And, most of us take most of our concerns to one primary care physician, who refers us to other physicians based on symptoms.

Dizziness and feeling off balance can be symptoms of other disorders, such as High Blood Pressure. Please see your care provider to rule out anything serious. If you have reason to believe your Tinnitus might be hormonal related, I am here to 'high-five' you. If you are interested, there is a also a clinical director that is interested in hearing from peri-menopausal and post-menopausal women who would be willing to participate in a Tinnitus study group. Her name is Marsha Johnson and you may contact her at 503.234.1221 or visit http://www.tinnitus-audiology.com/women.html.

 

Having Heart Palpitations?

Heart palpitations (fluttery, racing or thudding) sensations can be scary. Although heart palpitations are not considered dangerous in themselves, check with your doctor to make sure it is nothing more serious. Hawthorn has been used for centuries in Europe to calm the nervous system. It is safe to use long term, but please check with your care provider if you are using any kind of heart medication. You will want to use the Tincture as follows:

Tincture 1:1: 20 drops in water or juice, or as the label directs, up to 3 times per day.

Make sure you