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2 of Cups (Hearts)

Something very attractive is in the air! The 2 of Cups signifies a partnership, union or marriage based on compatibility. It is a coupling of some sort and the harmony that goes with it is bigger than life. Whether a friendship or a love interest, there is much joy and contentment. There may be an "I love you" or a proposal, or marriage. Feelings are reciprocal and you can expect things to go well. If not a person you are falling in love with, it may be an aspect of your work or a new idea. Whatever the situation, even if it can't yet be expressed to the world, it is one of great appeal. You may even receive a thoughtful or sentimental gift. Sometimes sympathy brings people closer together when shared. This card denotes that kind of sharing. If you are not finding emotional stability in your relationships or your domestic life is in turmoil, it may be time for forgiveness and reconciliation. Did someone not live up to your expectations? Is the infatuation over? Are emotions hard to express? Are you sensing one-sidedness? Inconsiderate behavior can cause a general atmosphere of disharmony. When this card is reversed there can be bruised emotions, serious incompatibilities and emotionally charged arguments. There may even be a parting of the ways. Perhaps it would be best to back off your involvement a little in order to gain perspective.

3 of Cups (Hearts)

The 3 of Cups signifies get togethers, especially of women, and something to celebrate. Perhaps your celebration is more inward, of quiet gains, and something to look forward to. It is a time of merriment, of having plenty, of playing and having fun. Friends, solidarity, abundance and cheer are prominent. Entertaining may be a priority. Blessings are being acknowledged and something is being brought to completion. There is fertility in many areas. Perhaps the successful start of a business, the passing of finals or even the conception of a child. In fact, marriages and pregnancy are favorable at this time. You may be anticipating divorce finals that will make a new marriage possible in the future or you may be experiencing renewed health after a period of illness. You may be cheering a creative project that has potential for becoming a business. Success may be coming in smaller steps, but non-the-less, is still evident even if something may be postponed, cancelled or called off. If you have no one to share it with, dispatch a message to bring someone closer or treat yourself. Accept invitations that are offered. However, be careful you don't go overboard on the celebrating and enjoy too much of a good thing. Watch out for short-sighted behaviors. It could spell the end of a prosperous cycle.

4 of Cups (Hearts)

Apathy has taken hold and you are in your own little shell. It's OK. You are not accepting what is being offered presently because you are trying to wrap your mind and heart around a situation that has you baffled or distressed, or both. You must be told that because of this you may miss an opportunity. In fact, you may be rejecting perfectly good ideas or offers while you are feeling bored, dissatisfied, resentful or moody. There's something you thought you would feel better about than you do. Perhaps you were riding on high emotions and only saw what you wanted to see. Now the reality is sinking in. The 4 of Cups suggests a relationship or project did not turn out the way you expected it to and now you are going through a period of intense let down. Has the novelty worn off? Are you pouting because things aren't as much fun as they used to be? Are you withdrawing your emotions from a person or situation? Removed yourself from society and hiding out in your home? Imagination mixed with weariness creates mixed pleasures. You may be feeling desolate, demoralized or unsure about something. Tuning out to gain perspective is OK. This is important in helping you to get your mind around your dilemma. Only then can you come back to the world with renewed energy and focus. A new hobby, friendship or social group may be just the thing you need. 

5 of Cups (Hearts)

The 5 of Cups symbolizes disappointment in something that you had previously had your hopes wrapped up in. Loss and disillusionment prevail, especially in relationships. Sadness and yearning may be a part of your emotional landscape. Self-blame, guilt and shame may be attached as well. Are you spending alot of time looking back at the wrong choices you made rather than looking ahead? Mourning for what might have been? You may be married, but not without bitterness, disappointment, empty romance, celibacy or worse, sex without love. You are unhappy, maybe even resentful. You may feel you are being scolded or punished you did or did not do. You are confused. The cup may look half empty, but it is actually half full. If your relationship is basically a healthy one, then your happiness is up to you. But, if you are in a painful relationship where you are emotionally, verbally or physically abused, it is time you love yourself. Do what you need in order to sever the ties that bind you. It is not acceptable to mistreat or be mistreated. Grieve and move on. Decisions need to be made. There is a need to balance your emotions so that you can see what is real and what is illusion. Then go from there. Pay attention to messages. They may renew your faith in yourself and others.

6 of Cups (Hearts)

Something or someone has surfaced, or is surfacing, from your past. This a time of remembering past relationships, for good or bad. Try to work through any negative thoughts about yourself from your past, especially those that others imposed on you. Often times, as children, our dependence and trust are violated and taken advantage of. The 6 of Cups encourages you to value kindness and sweetness. Don't place the blame on innocence and trust, rather see things for what they were. Use positive memories, no matter how few, to fuel enthusiasm toward developing positive relationships in the present. The ability to reflect on simpler joys and happy moments you did have is a valued aspect of yourself that you may have forgotten exists. Your memories are going to play a part in a new arena you are about to enter and will effect the success of a relationship or other commitment. Children may play a role in your life right now. This could be your own or other children. There may be a desire to have a child or to teach children. Watching your own children mature may be bringing back your own childhood memories. You may be in a relationship where roles are played out more as 'Parent/ Child', rather than 'Adult/Adult'. Debilitating memories can constantly make you wish for what could have been or cause you to be clingy, insecure and wishing for someone to protect you. It is time to let go of those limitations. If our thoughts are in the past, our energy is too and it's exhausting! It may be time for a heart to heart talk with someone you trust. Is there something you like to do when you were a child? Paint, sing, write, ice skate? Do that. Reclaim your self-esteem and independence!

7 of Cups (Hearts)

So many choices and all are appealing in their own way! You may be daydreaming over new choices regarding talents or romanticisms, not yet ready to decide, and just enjoying the pondering for now. No hurry. Whatever it is you are wishful thinking, your creative mind is peaking and you are investing much energy into it. The 7 of Cups often symbolizes those things we long for, but have internal conflict over. Even though emotions, especially sentimentality, may be getting the best of you, it really isn't a good time to be making any major decisions until you have had more time to think. Seek out more information. Are you suffering a particular disorientation that comes from alcoholism, drug abuse or sugar highs? If so, you may doing more fantasizing with your imagination, rather than seeking out healthy choices. If you are sitting around dreaming about all that your partner can offer you, be aware that this kind of expectation can put alot of pressure on a significant other. Are you sure you looking for ways to have someone to do for you what you should be doing for yourself? One thing that is important here is to realize what you are and are not capable of. Then you can establish a vision that can be met with success. Use your will in positive ways. You may decide to empty your cups (choices), as it were, and go in new directions all together.

8 of Cups (Hearts)

Where the 5 of Cups left you feeling disappointed, the 8 of Cups suggests you are now walking away. Your effort was made in vane. Nothing is ever going to give you hope in this situation ever again. There is not peace or inner happiness. Walking away signals the very end. You are leaving oppression behind and choosing another path to satisfy your emotional needs. In fact, you just don't care anymore. Maturity and personal meaning in your relationships is now a priority. Even though this can be a card of abrupt changes, the worst is behind you and the changes now take place in a mild, rather than confronting, sort of way. Still, evidence suggests that there is something being left behind that is worth salvaging if you choose to. Whether this something is something to come back and stay for, or to come back to collect, is up to you. There is a decision that still needs to be made and then things will go that much smoother. You may be traveling or relocating.  You may receive help from a light-haired woman. In fact, you should know that whatever you walk toward should work out well. Sometimes we feel we should leave a situation and yet we don't. We stay. It could be that we know deep down that we did not give it our all and if we had things might have been different. If this is the case, you might change your expectations to a more realistic level and stay where you are, ready to return to the physical world of responsibility and commitments. But if your situation is negative, stifling or threatening, think again. You don't have to convince yourself to be happy in your situation, nor settle for less. Let go.

9 of Cups (Hearts)

The 9 of Wands is the best card in the deck. I fact, if you have negative cards in the rest of your reading, this card makes all those troubles only temporary obstacles! Your wishes are about to come true, if they haven't already! Things are going very well for you. You may be at the end of a successful project, getting married to your soul-mate, feeling your health improve in ways you never thought you could hope for. Peace of mind has been restored and personal riches have been multiplied. Blessings abound and something, or someone, has added zest to life. There is even the hint, here, of luxury and over indulgence. Going overboard may not be the best thing, but enjoy, enjoy! Not too dampen your spirit, but you must know what it is you truly want before your dreams can come true or you will suffer delays. Another important factor is making sure that what you have wished for is good for you. There are times when we think we know what we want, only to get it, and then realize, it was not what we wanted at all. When thinking about what you want, understand your motivations, and pray for what is best for you.

10 of Cups (Hearts)

There is domestic and every other kind of bliss in your life right now. Things are going very well and happiness and contentment are not being sought, but finally being felt. There has been forgiveness and truces drawn among family and friends. There is evidence of real love, satisfaction and personal relationships of the kind that last. You may not have alot of money, but you are rich in every other sense. Surrounded by the things and people you love, compatibility abides and rules. Family life is rewarding, your existence is peaceful, and you are emotionally fulfilled. A great many blessings have been received and acknowledged from God. There is much self-esteem in having reached long-term goals. Husband and wife are happy and there may be opportunity to travel or own a vacation home. Someone may be sharing their home and family with you, offering you a place of contentment and peace. If you have drawn this card reversed, then the opposite may be true and you are wondering what all this talk about bliss has to do with you. Are incompatibilities ruling? Personality clashes may be driving you crazy! It is possible conflicts could become violent. Be aware of extreme emotions so you can avoid volatile situations. View 'Dealing With Negativity' for ideas on how to cope in negative situations.  

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Artwork - 'Tristam & Isolde'. John William Waterhouse, 1916.